Sexual Activity

There are two ways to have sexual relations. God's Way, or Not God's Way.

Just like anything, you can live for God, or live for yourself

Be exalted, O God, above the heavens, and let Your glory be over all the earth. Ps 108:5     I desire to do Your will, O my God; Your law is within my heart." Ps 40:8

Teach me to do Your will, for You are my God; may Your good Spirit lead me on level ground. Ps 143:10 

Your kingdom come, Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Matt 6:10  

The nations will fear the Name of the LORD , all the kings of the earth will revere Your glory. Ps 57:5   

"You are worthy, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, for You created all things, and by Your will they were created and have their being." Rev 4:11

Sexual Relations God's Way-

Healthy Sexual relations are nothing like sexual perversion. Healthy sexual relations enhance your own and your spouse's spirit, soul, body and mind with joy, lightness, peace, contentment, harmony, and an overflowing unselfish love onto other people.  God has give sexuality His Way as a gift, and a representation of His marriage with His people

Healthy Sexual relations show all of these characteristics:

  1. They are in the union of a lifetime marriage commitment.
  2. They are made with appreciation and love of the other person.
  3. They are made for the purpose of serving the other in Christ's Love and passion.  

God's Word says much about physical love.  Read in the Bible the book of the Song of Solomon, or about The Bride of Christ, Wives & Husbands, Rules for Holy Living & what Love is ... .

        It is pure sweet holy love between a man and a woman when each is in Christ Jesus. That love is tender from the soul, nurturing and serving according to the Holy Spirit. This is the experience of sexual relations in the way God has designed and intended.  Passions may come and go, but true love in obedience to and through Christ Jesus have a light that illuminates and a lightness of Him that lifts the spirit, not just the emotion.

How God made it in the very beginning, before sin/selfishness entered the world The LORD God formed the man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being. ... The LORD God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it. ... The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him."  

        Now the LORD God had formed out of the ground all the beasts of the field and all the birds of the air. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds of the air and all the beasts of the field. (This is just how it is today for those of us in Christ Jesus, we walk and talk with God daily, for His Word is Life, and His Spirit gives us breath. He teaches us and we are filled with His Joy and Peace! )    So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man's ribs and closed up the place with flesh. Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.   The man said, "This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called 'woman, ' for she was taken out of man."    For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame. Gen 2:7-25

Sexual Relations NOT God's Way-

for adulterers and perverts, for slave traders and liars and perjurers–and for whatever else is Is Contrary to the sound doctrine. 1Tim 1:10 

God's Rules for Sexuality.

   Definitions of Sexual perversion?  

The Results of Sexual Perversion.

Sexual Idolatry caused the Plague

 Why is there sexual perversion? 

I like my sexual immoral lifestyle just the way it is.

Definitions of Sexual Perversion

Sexual perversion is to distort what God deems true to be untrue. God made men and women to fit together in a natural way. Sexual perversion is when men come together with men, or women come together with women, or with animals, objects, images on picture, etc.  In all cases, each person will be always be  emotionally, physically and spiritually unsatisfied, for their bodies and souls are going in the opposite direction of God's design and intent.  

Homosexuality is sodomy which is a distortion of God's truth, biologically, psychologically and spiritually.  Any sexual behavior, or conduct, for personal profit, gain, use, selfish pleasure at the expense, cost, price of another is a violation of God's Laws, sexual laws.

Sexual immorality is fornication and perversion.  It is an act of violence.  It is a sin against your own body and soul and an act of violence against the person or object you are interacting with.  It is always an action against the Lord God Almighty Who sees it all.  

Sexual immorality violates your heart, mind, spirit and emotion. Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. 1 Cor 6:18    

It is impossible to be totally healed from sexual sins without asking for the Great Physician  to heal you. I want to be healed.  

The Results of Sexual Perversion

Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 1Cor 6:9,10

For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander. Matt 15:19

Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. 1 Cor 6:18

"Food for the stomach and the stomach for food"–but God will destroy them both. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 1Cor 6:13

Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Col 3:5
We should not commit sexual immorality, as some of them did–and in one day twenty­three thousand of them died. 1Cor 10:8 (Sodom hyper)

The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; Gal 5:19
In a similar way,
Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding towns gave themselves up to sexual immorality and perversion. They serve as an example of those who suffer the punishment of eternal fire. Jude 1:7

Nor did they repent of their murders, their magic arts, their sexual immorality or their thefts. Rev 9:21 

Do not be idolaters, as some of them were; as it is written: "The people sat down to eat and drink and got up to indulge in pagan revelry." 1Cor 10:7; Ex 32:6  Therefore, my dear friends, flee from idolatry. 1Cor 10:14

Sexual immorality is violent; a form of wrath, anger, revenge and violence.

It is not like healthy sexuality.  

God tells us: drink of the wine of the wrath of her fornication; golden cup full of abominations and the filthiness of her fornication; the wine of the wrath of her fornication; God has judged the great harlot who corrupted the earth with her fornication; and He has avenged on her the blood of His servants shed by her. Rev 14,18,19

And another angel followed, saying, "Babylon Babylon the great is fallen, is fallen, which has made; is fallen, is fallen, that great city, because she has made all nations drink of the wine of the wrath of her fornication." Rev 14:8
with whom the kings of the earth committed fornication, and the inhabitants of the earth were made drunk with the wine of her fornication." Rev 17:2
The woman was arrayed in purple and scarlet, and adorned with gold and precious stones and pearls, having in her hand a golden cup full of abominations and the filthiness of her fornication. Rev 17:4
For all the nations have drunk of the wine of the wrath of her fornication, the kings of the earth have committed fornication with her, and the merchants of the earth have become rich through the abundance of her luxury." Rev 18:3

"The kings of the earth who committed fornication and lived luxuriously with her will weep and lament for her, when they see the smoke of her burning, Rev 18:9
For true and righteous are His judgments, because He has judged the great harlot who corrupted the earth with her fornication; and He has avenged on her the blood of His servants shed by her." Rev 19:2

It is unthinkable that God would do wrong, that the Almighty would pervert justice. Job 34:12

For the foolishness of God is wiser than man's wisdom, and the weakness of God is stronger than man's strength.  Brothers, think of what you were when you were called.  Not many of you were wise by human standards; not many were influential; not many were of noble birth.  But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong.  He chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things -- and the things that are not -- to nullify the things that are, so that no one may boast before Him.  It is because of Him that you are in Christ Jesus, Who has become for us wisdom from God--that is, our righteousness, holiness and redemption. Therefore, as it is written: "Let him who boasts boast in the Lord." 1Cor 1:25-31; Jer. 9:24

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